Imagine your Perfect Day…what would you do? Where would you be? Who would you be with? One of the questions that often comes up when I guide people through the Ideal Day exercise is, is OK to try to make an ideal day come true? Is this not selfish? I always say that it is important to be selfish when it comes to your soul needs. Now the word selfish has negative meaning in our culture, but in this context it means self-care: caring for...

Have you ever been in the situation where something you really wanted didn’t happen? Perhaps you said to yourself, “it was just not meant to be.” The reasons why we don’t get what we want are not always easy to pin down but some possible explanations are: At some level we feel undeserving Our self-doubt sabotages us Lack of support: Other people tell us it is out of our reach The goal or dream is not in alignment with...

The [tag]law of attraction[/tag] reminds us to take time to smell the roses…but before the roses comes preparation. I’ve spent many winter evenings looking through gardening catalogues dreaming of the beautiful flowers I will have in my garden in the summer. But I don’t ever remember spending time dreaming about the preparation (having spent too many springs turning heavy topsoil and digging weeds). But in manifesting...

Here is an exercise to help you to get clear on what you really want to [tag]manifest[/tag] in your life. You might have worked with ‘top 10′ lists in the past. In the exercise, instead of your top 10 things you want, make a list of at least 100 things you would like to manifest. Get a notebook and write down the numbers 1 – 100, leaving a space next to each number to write down the thing you want to manifest. Why 100?...

Did you watch the movie, or read the book, The Secret? Have you applied the [tag]law of attraction[/tag] to your life? Have you used feng shui to help you with [tag]manifesting[/tag] what you desire? How did it work out? What were your experiences? What I have found in my life and in observing my students and clients, is that the law of attraction is not as straight forward as it seems because people (me included) don’t always know what...