Have you ever had one of those days where you go to find something and it isn’t where you thought it was? It is so frustrating! It happens to me more often than I would like: My new camera vanished. After a frenzied search around the house, I found it a few hours later exactly where I’d left it: in a purse I don’t usually use but took on a weekend trip.  A certain grey jacket not worn since last fall...

Earlier this year I joined a business success circle (or a Mastermind Group, if you are familiar with Napoleon Hill’s book Think and Grow Rich). After we went around the table and talked about where we were with our businesses, our group leader posed an interesting question: What have you been putting off? I found it a difficult question to answer. While I was waiting for my turn to speak, my first answer was ‘nothing!" I...

Negative core beliefs: we all have them. Just try feeling good about yourself and see what happens. I’m serious. Tell yourself how wonderful, brilliant, successful and talented you are. You might be familiar with writing affirmations. So, write an affirmation, making it as bold and ‘out-there’ as you can, and write it down. Fill a whole sheet a paper with your affirmation.  For example, “I, Deborah Redfern am a famous...

How do You learn?  Are you: Visual Verbal Aural Physical or Kinesthetic Logical or Spatial Social Soliltary Musical    Brian Walsh in Unleashing Your  Brilliance, calls these learning styles “learning intelligences’. He says, Most of us are a mixture of all the intelligences, usually displaying a particular aptitude for a few. Occasionally, there are cases where people develop a single strong intellingence without developing...